Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? (And Other Concerns)
by Mindy Kaling
222 pages
Library
Memoir/Humor
2011
Book Jacket Summary
Mindy Kaling has lived many lives: the obedient child of immigrant
professionals, a timid chubster afraid of her own bike, a Ben
Affleck–impersonating Off-Broadway performer and playwright, and, finally, a
comedy writer and actress prone to starting fights with her friends and
coworkers with the sentence “Can I just say one last thing about this, and then
I swear I’ll shut up about it?”
Perhaps you want to know what Mindy
thinks makes a great best friend (someone who will fill your prescription in the
middle of the night), or what makes a great guy (one who is aware of all elderly
people in any room at any time and acts accordingly), or what is the perfect
amount of fame (so famous you can never get convicted of murder in a court of
law), or how to maintain a trim figure (you will not find that information in
these pages). If so, you’ve come to the right book, mostly!
In Is
Everyone Hanging Out Without Me?, Mindy invites readers on a tour of her
life and her unscientific observations on romance, friendship, and Hollywood,
with several conveniently placed stopping points for you to run errands and make
phone calls. Mindy Kaling really is just a Girl Next Door—not so much literally
anywhere in the continental United States, but definitely if you live in India
or Sri Lanka.
My Thoughts
It has been a while since I've read a funny memoir type book and I'm glad I start with Mindy Kaling's book. I have been eying it at the bookstore for a while and when I finally saw it on the shelf of the library I grabbed it. I have been needing something different in my diet of picture books and teen angst. Mindy Kaling fit the bill. She basically writes essays on a theme, such as her childhood, friendships, her writing experiences, and her looks. I think I picked this book because I happen to think this title in my head. It was nice to know that even a celebrity felt this way at some point. Mindy is really funny and I think the back cover of the book cemented the fact that it went to the library checkout with me. You kinda have to see it to believe it. Plus, as Mindy stated in her book, never explain the joke.
Mindy Kaling, as most of you know, writes and stars in The Office on NBC . She plays Kelly Kapoor but does not want people to assume she is Kelly. A good chunk of the book describes how she got into writing comedy and how she landed a writing job on The Office. She talks about how awesome the people on the show are in real life but that is not the entire book. I did think it was funny that she believes that Steve Carell is the nicest person in the world and kinda hates him for it. Her outlook is hilarious and I am so glad that others have the need to gossip and make inappropriate jokes. I laughed out loud several times when Mindy described her childhood and making friends.Plus she has a whole chapter about the the pictures on her blackberry. This tells a lot about a person and what it tells about her, is that she likes to check her makeup and make sure not to much cleavage is showing. I totally need to do this too!
I would highly recommend this one to people who love The Office or just love comedy. Mindy Kaling obviously does and that is what makes the book do special. She is someone that I will be watching for a second book!
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